NewsTalk 1010: Take Time Before Divorcing - Featuring Laura Paris, Shulman & Partners

A recent study conducted by the University of Alberta and Brigham Young University revealed that while many married adults contemplate divorce, a significant number later reconsider their decision. The findings underscore how moments of stress or uncertainty do not always reflect long term intentions. In a NewsTalk 1010 interview discussing this research, Laura Paris, Associate Lawyer at Shulman & Partners LLP, offered insight into how family lawyers approach clients who are considering separation and the importance of slowing the process when uncertainty is present. The conversation explored how legal guidance can help individuals distinguish between temporary marital strain and irreparable breakdown. It also touched on broader family law themes, including delayed independence among younger adults and the growing financial support parents provide to their children. Together, these issues highlight the evolving realities Canadian families face and the need for thoughtful, informed decision making.

“Once we actually sit down and explain to them the process involved, you’ll find that you may see a change of heart in people. When we start to get that feel, that’s the point where we sit back and say, ‘You need to consider whether this process is right for you at this time.’”
— Laura Paris, Associate Lawyer, Shulman & Partners LLP

The interview focused on research showing that one in four married adults had considered divorce within a six month period, yet approximately half changed their minds a year later. From a family law perspective, this data highlights the importance of timing and emotional readiness when clients first seek legal advice. Laura explained that many individuals arrive at consultations highly emotional and determined to move forward quickly. However, once the realities of the legal process are explained, including timelines, financial disclosure requirements, and long term implications, hesitation often emerges.

Laura emphasized that this hesitation is not unusual and can be a healthy sign. When uncertainty is apparent, family lawyers have a responsibility to encourage reflection rather than escalation. In situations where financial stress is driving conflict, alternative solutions such as financial planning or budgeting support may be more appropriate than initiating divorce proceedings. Where emotional or communication breakdowns are central, couples counselling can provide clarity and help individuals determine whether reconciliation is possible.

The discussion also expanded to broader demographic trends influencing family dynamics. Census data shows that many adults in their twenties and thirties continue to live at home longer than previous generations. Laura noted that delayed marriage, extended education, and shifting employment conditions contribute to this trend. Higher educational requirements and slower entry into stable employment often delay financial independence and household formation.

As a result, many parents continue to provide financial support to their adult children, sometimes through early inheritance advances or ongoing assistance. While well intentioned, Laura cautioned that this approach can carry risks. Parents may encounter unexpected medical or financial needs later in life after resources have already been transferred. Supporting adult children should be balanced with protecting long term financial security.

Overall, the interview reinforced the importance of thoughtful decision making in family law matters. Whether considering divorce, navigating financial strain, or supporting adult children, taking time to assess options and seek informed guidance can help families avoid outcomes driven by short term pressure rather than long term well being.

Listen to the full NewsTalk 1010 interview here.

This media appearance is part of Shulman & Partners LLP’s ongoing contributions to Canadian family law discussions. Explore more of our media features in our In the Media archive.