NewsTalk 1010: What to Know About Divorce Season - Featuring Laura Paris, Shulman & Partners

During a recent segment on NewsTalk 1010, Associate Lawyer Laura Paris of Shulman & Partners LLP joined host Jim Richards to discuss what many family lawyers informally describe as “divorce season,” the early-year period when separation inquiries noticeably rise. The conversation explored why the early months of the year often bring a noticeable increase in separation inquiries and how couples can approach this difficult period with clearer expectations. Laura explained that financial pressures, holiday tension, and the emotional reset of a new year can all prompt people to reassess their relationships and consider whether separation is the right next step. She also highlighted the importance of early legal guidance, balanced decision-making, and recognizing when emotional responses may complicate the process. The discussion offered practical insight for individuals navigating one of the most challenging transitions a family can face.

“It’s really a matter of putting the emotions aside, and I find that it’s a very difficult task. But really, where we find that fees escalate sometimes for unnecessary reasons is when people are overly emotional about what they’re dealing with.”
— Laura Paris, Associate Lawyer, Shulman & Partners LLP

During the interview, Jim Richards opened with a lighthearted take on the idea of “divorce season,” but quickly shifted to the real-life dynamics that lead many people to consider separation at the start of the year. Laura explained that while the term is informal, the trend is recognizable: after the holidays, couples often face financial pressure, unresolved tensions, or the emotional crash that follows an intense season. For some, the new year becomes a natural point of reflection, and they begin questioning whether their relationship is still healthy or sustainable.

Laura noted that not everyone who contacts a lawyer is certain about divorcing. Many are simply trying to understand the legal process, what separation would require, and whether they are ready to take that step. One of the first questions she asks potential clients is whether they have already discussed separation with their spouse, since the answer can significantly shape the guidance she provides. She emphasized that a lawyer’s responsibility includes helping clients evaluate whether all avenues for reconciliation have been explored, including counseling or other supports.

When separation does move forward, Laura stressed how emotions can quickly become obstacles. She sees significant increases in legal conflict when anger, resentment, or a desire for revenge eclipse practicality. This is especially true when clients attempt to avoid obligations such as spousal support or try to justify decisions that do not align with the law. She explained that ignoring a lawyer’s candid advice often results in higher legal fees, prolonged conflict, and, in some cases, court decisions that force clients to reconsider their approach.

Laura also discussed how behavior driven by hurt or frustration can impact children. While lawyers are not mental-health professionals, they frequently witness the effects of high-conflict separations on families. She highlighted the need for clients to understand that a lawyer’s job is not to cheerlead but to provide grounded legal direction, even when the guidance is difficult to hear.

The interview underscored a recurring message: separation is emotional, but informed decision-making requires clarity, honesty, and a willingness to put long-term stability ahead of short-term emotion.