Making the Most of March Break as Co-Parents

With March Break on the horizon, many parents are gearing up for family trips and fun activities with their kids. But for divorced or separated parents, planning this time can come with extra challenges.

Whether you’re newly separated or a seasoned co-parent, navigating shared parenting during March Break can feel overwhelming. Conflicting schedules, time apart from your kids, and coordinating plans with your ex can make things stressful. However, with the right approach—early planning, open communication, and a positive mindset—you can create a smooth and enjoyable break for everyone.

Here’s how to make the most of March Break as co-parents.

1. Make March Break Plans in Advance:

March Break brings different schedules into play—not just for you and your co-parent, but also for your kids. That’s why planning ahead is key.

Start discussions with your co-parent early, whether you're organizing a week-long trip or a short getaway. Confirm travel dates, coordinate with work and school schedules, and establish a plan that prioritizes your children’s needs. The earlier you finalize details, the easier it will be to book trips, sign up for activities, and provide your kids with a stable routine.

2. Be Flexible & Communicative:

If you’re a parent, you already know that plans can change in an instant—kids get sick, work schedules shift, and unexpected conflicts arise. When this happens, flexibility is key.

If schedules need to be adjusted, keep the conversation open with your co-parent. Work together to find solutions that are in your kids' best interests, even if it means making compromises. While changes can be frustrating, maintaining a cooperative approach helps create a more positive experience for your children.

3. Take Time for Yourself:

Spending March Break without your kids—especially for the first time—can feel lonely. If you’re used to family vacations or annual traditions, this shift may bring up difficult emotions.

Instead of dwelling on the time apart, focus on what you can do for yourself. Use this opportunity to recharge—whether it’s diving into a hobby, catching up with friends, or tackling projects you’ve been putting off. Taking time for yourself doesn’t just make the break easier—it also helps you show up as the best version of yourself when your kids return.

Making the Most of March Break

March Break may look different after divorce, but that doesn’t mean it can’t be a time of connection, fun, and balance. By planning ahead, staying flexible, and embracing both your time with and without the kids, you can create a positive experience for everyone. Co-parenting isn’t always easy, but with open communication and a little patience, you can turn March Break into a time for making memories—not managing mayhem.