BNN Bloomberg: Power Imbalances - Featuring Laura Paris, Shulman & Partners

Power imbalances within a marriage often develop gradually, shaped by financial roles, caregiving responsibilities, and long-standing household arrangements. While these dynamics may go unnoticed during the relationship, they can become highly visible and consequential during divorce proceedings. In an appearance on BNN Bloomberg, Laura Paris, Associate Lawyer at Shulman & Partners LLP, discussed how unequal access to financial information and resources can complicate separation and divorce, particularly in long-term or traditionally structured marriages. The conversation explored how these imbalances arise, why they are so common, and how Ontario family law provides mechanisms to help level the playing field when a relationship breaks down.

“Especially when we're looking at traditional marriage dynamics where there's one party that is working and the other party staying at home, naturally these roles develop and you almost don't even realize after years and years that you don’t really have a good grasp of how much your spouse earns or what your financial situation is.”
— Laura Paris, Associate Lawyer at Shulman & Partners LLP

During the interview, Laura explained that power imbalances are present in many relationships and are something family lawyers encounter regularly. While these imbalances can take different forms, she noted that financial disparities between spouses are the most common and often the most impactful during divorce proceedings.

In many marriages, especially long-term or traditional ones, couples divide responsibilities in ways that feel practical at the time. One spouse may handle income and financial management, while the other focuses on caregiving or household duties. Over time, this can lead to one partner having limited knowledge of earnings, assets, debts, or overall financial standing. Importantly, Laura emphasized that these imbalances often develop unintentionally and can exist even in otherwise healthy relationships.

When a relationship breaks down, the lack of financial awareness can place one spouse at a disadvantage. A party who does not understand the family’s financial situation may struggle to make informed decisions or feel dependent on the other spouse to move the process forward. This imbalance can be particularly problematic if one party controls access to money during the early stages of separation.

Laura outlined how Ontario family law provides tools to address these situations. Remedies such as spousal support and advances on property equalization can help ensure that both parties have the financial ability to participate in negotiations or court proceedings. These mechanisms are designed to prevent financial control from being used as leverage and to create a more balanced process.

The discussion also touched on the challenges that arise when financial information has been withheld or assets have been concealed during the marriage. While courts can require disclosure, uncovering hidden assets can be complex, time-consuming, and costly. She noted that this is why early financial involvement and transparency during a relationship can be critical in reducing future legal and financial strain.

Ultimately, the interview highlighted the importance of awareness and preparation. Understanding household finances, maintaining some level of financial independence, and seeking legal advice when needed can significantly reduce vulnerability if a relationship ends. Addressing power imbalances early can help ensure a fairer and more manageable separation process.

Watch the full BNN Bloomberg segment here.

This media appearance is part of Shulman & Partners LLP’s ongoing contributions to Canadian family law discussions. Explore more of our media features in our In the Media archive.