Can You Deny Parenting Time if Child Support Isn't Paid?

Raising a child comes with significant financial responsibilities, so when child support payments stop coming in, it is natural to want to take action. But while there are legal ways to enforce child support, cutting off parenting time isn't one of them. 

Child Support Is A Child's Right—Not the Other Parent's 

In Ontario, child support and parenting time are separate legal issues—one does not cancel out the other. A parent cannot be denied access to their child because of unpaid support, just as a parent cannot refuse to pay support if they don’t get the parenting time they want.

Child support is governed by the Child Support Guidelines, which includes a set formula for determining the 'table' obligation for monthly support. The table child support obligation is determined based on three key factors:

1. The primary residency of the child;
2. The number of children; and
3. The income of the paying parent (the second residency parent)

If parenting time is shared on a 40% to  60% basis, both parents may be considered payors, and a set-off calculation may be applied. 

What Happens If Child Support Isn't Paid? 

Even if a parent falls behind on payments, you cannot deny them access to their child. The law sees child support as a financial obligation—not a bargaining tool. If payments stop, the proper course of action is through legal enforcement, not withholding parenting time. In contrast, in situations where a parent has been legally denied parenting time, they are still obligated to pay child support. Only in exceptional circumstances will the Court consider it appropriate to deviate from applying the “table” method.

What Should You Do If Child Support Isn't Being Paid? 

We know how frustrating and overwhelming it can feel when child support payments stop coming in. It’s not just about finances—it’s about fairness, stability, and making sure your child has what they need. But while it’s tempting to take matters into your own hands, withholding parenting time isn’t the answer.

Instead, the best course of action is to explore legal enforcement options while continuing to follow any court-ordered parenting arrangements. Get in touch with our team so you can understand your rights and find the best way forward. We are here for you!